Ready to get started homeschooling? Or, maybe you are still researching? Fear not, it is a big decision and there are lots of reasons families choose to homeschool. Some families want to give their kids a more intense academic push. Others might have religious beliefs or think their child’s special needs aren’t being met in traditional schools. And then there are those who just want more flexibility to teach at their child’s pace or let them explore their interests more deeply.
But the big question is always, “Where do I even start?”
While that is a big question, THE big question is Should I Homeschool? So, before deciding to change your entire family dynamic carefully contemplate the decision. Because it will change everything. From here on out we’ll assume we are on the same homeschooling track. So, let’s get you started!
Step 1: Learn Your State Regulations
Before perusing curriculum and setting up the most perfect learning space in your home you much know your state regulations. From state to state the regulations vary wildly. Here in Texas, we are considered independent private schools and you can begin as soon as you decide it is the path for your family. However, other states have a myriad of regulations from approved curriculum to annual testing an portfolios. Before doing anything else visit a national resource like HSLDA and understand the legal framework that you must work within.
Step 2: Research Homeschool Styles and Curriculum
Finding your style and a curriculum that works for your family and each learner can be an adventure in and of itself. You must be okay with change because what works this year may not work next year. The curriculum that helps one child thrive may be driving another to procrastination and derailment. Expect some trial and error in this process and if you have the ability to see curriculum in person (at a homeschool store or convention) take that opportunity.
In fact, if you are transitioning from a traditional public or private school you may want to take some time to “deschool.” This is a great opportunity for a family to reset before beginning a new adventure.
Step 3: Set Up a Support Network
Homeschooling is magical. But, it can also be lonely and confusing. Connecting with other homeschooling families for advice, encouragement, and social opportunities is a great way to get out of the house, make friends, have experiences, and build a support structure for each step in this journey. Even if it is online Facebook groups having a place to ask questions, share, and support other families is essential to a well functioning family and homeschool.
Step 4: Create a Learning Space
Having a space you can designate as a space for learning is essential. Stay away from Pinterest for now. It does not need to be picture perfect. It needs to be functional. It can be a specific room or a an area within a shared space that you carve out for your homeschool.
Kitchen tables are a classic choice. The main thing you do need out of this space is somewhere to gather necessary supplies, books, paper, art supplies, technology, etc. Having it all in one area will make your day flow better.
Step 5: Work on a Schedule & Rhythm
Your first day might be beautiful. It might be full of tears – for you or your kids. This is a very big change. Watch for stress points; watch for what works really well. Does your kid read well upside down hanging from the couch? Go for it! Did math wear everyone out – make a picnic and go to the park.
The biggest misstep most new homeschool families make is replicating school at home. Home is not school. You do not need to spend as long educating your children as a traditional school spends educating hundreds of children. Take it slow, be mindful, give yourself grace, and find what works for your family.
Step 6: Embrace Your New Life
Do you know teachers in traditional schools continue to learn the craft every year? They do not get out of school, get a job, and just go with it. So, even if you do not have a background in teaching you can do this. Make time of your own to learn. It will build confidence and enhance your teaching abilities.
Remember, the most important thing is creating a positive and engaging learning environment where your child (and family) can thrive. By providing guidance, support, and encouragement, you can help your child reach their full potential.
